Yesterday Jeremy and I celebrated our seven year anniversary! That seems like such a big number- 7! We also attended the wedding of one of my childhood friends over the weekend, and it got me reminiscing about our own wedding on the same weekend seven years earlier. It some ways it seems like it was ages ago and in some ways like it was yesterday.
Like many (but definitely not all) girls, I LOVED planning my wedding, and to this day I still say that it was the best wedding I've ever been to (I might be just a slight bit biased). I distinctly remember going to bed the night before the big day realizing that it would be my last night in "my bed" at "my house" and thinking that there was no way I was going to be able to sleep because I was so excited. I ended up having one of the best nights of sleep ever. And then I woke up to my wedding day. I remember some details so vividly...doing my hair (and having to run to the drug store because I didn't have enough bobby pins), seeing the bright pink, orange and green bouquets for the first time (and thinking that they were PERFECT), using the bathroom off the church's nursery in my huge dress and not being sure I would find the toilet, holding my dad's hand at the back of the church waiting for the music cue, seeing my grandpa cry as he performed the ceremony. Then came the reception, which was also extremely memorable! In fact, I had several people remind me in the last few days that my wedding will forever be remembered as "the one where the power went out." It was a very hot and humid day, and in the middle of the reception, during the dollar dance to be exact, there was a very brief storm with an intense bolt of lighting that knocked the power out. Normally something like this, that goes against my plans, gets me all bent out of shape; but on that day I just laughed and thought, "Well, everyone will remember this wedding!" And they do. I'll also never forget the way we started singing "Row, Row, Row You Boat" and "B-I-N-G-O" to keep the dancing (and cash flow) going. I will also never forget leaving the reception and crying in the car because it had been such a wonderful day and because I was leaving my old life behind and starting a new one and because I didn't know when or even if I would see some of my college friends again. It was exciting and scary!
Now, seven year later, I find myself looking back over the past years and being amazed at how far Jeremy and I have come, and how much we've accomplished, and how God has worked in our lives. Our first year was spent in a little apartment in the ghetto...literally. My mom told me that if I wasn't married she never would have let me live there. The apartment was nothing to brag about, but the rent was cheaper than most and allowed us to save up for a house. I remember waking up one night, and many nights thereafter, to what sounded like a freight train and running to the window to discover a police helicopter circling our neighborhood with it's search light blazing looking for who knows what (I'm not sure I want to know). I remember Jeremy and I eating every meal on tray tables in our living room because our kitchen was so tiny and having to wash all our dishes by hand because we didn't have a dishwasher. I remember wondering if we would EVER have any friends and then meeting Justin and Michelle who became our first and now, years later, some of our best friends. I will never forget Jeremy working long hours for the State and me working at Dr. Tom's dental office and my very first time as "Clown Smiley" (yes, I had to dress up like a clown and do dental presentations to pre-schoolers).
Finally, a year-and-a-half after we got married we got out of the apartment in the ghetto and bought our first half. I will never forget waking up that first morning in my very own house. I was giddy! We finally had more than one bathroom, and a dishwasher, and a GARAGE! I was so thankful that we spent that first year in that little apartment saving every cent so that we could buy a house. Soon after this, we started attending Heritage Christian Church and met several other wonderful couples with whom we founded the "Life Group of Awesomeness," which we are still a part of today. I remember Jeremy applying for the district accountant job at Dublin City Schools and waiting anxiously to hear if he got the job. Then one day, while he was in the shower, his phone rang and someone left a voicemail. Like any good wife I listened to it and discovered it was the treasurer of Dublin City Schools who wanted to talk to Jeremy. I ran upstairs and told Jeremy that he had to get out of the shower NOW and call the guy back! He did...and discovered that he got the job! We were thrilled! Soon after that, we went through a tough time. Through a somewhat random sequence of events, it was discovered that I had some type of tumor in my chest next to my heart. After meeting with many doctors and having MRI's and CT scans I was told by one doctor that I had a parasitic infection (supposedly contracted from my time in Egypt in college) and needed to have surgery. Because of the rarity of the condition I was convinced I was going to die on some operating table in a foreign country with a foreign doctor trying to remove the tumor. Thankfully, that didn't happen. The tumor turned out to be a teratoma (a very rare, but thankfully benign, tumor) that did require open-heart surgery, but it was performed at OSU, not in Peru. And, the worst part of it all, was that I had to spend Christmas with my head over a puke bucket, as the anesthesia made me horribly sick.
But, God got us through it. Next came our struggle to get pregnant. After 9 months of trying, I was convinced we weren't going to be able to have kids. But God had other plans and 3 years ago we welcomed Grace Olivia into our lives. I will never forget that first night in the hospital with Grace asleep in her little bassinet beside me on one side and Jeremy asleep on the sofa bed on the other side. My heart was so full that I thought it would burst. It was probably the happiest night of my life! I quit my job to stay home with Grace and love that I got to witness her first smile, first crawl, first steps and all the other little moments that come with being a mom. She has brought so much joy to our lives. Then, 8 months ago we welcomed little Norah Hope. I honestly panicked before she was born because I truly did not think I could love another child as much as I loved Grace. But, somehow, my capacity to love grew immensely, and I can't imagine my life without her. I have to admit, the past few months (up until just over a month ago) have been a bit of a blur as I have been severely sleep deprived. Norah has been a challenging baby, having issues with reflux which led to lots of sleeping troubles. But, she has finally turned a corner and has become a much happier baby in the last month. She is such a giggly, wiggly, curious little bundle of energy. I love her to pieces.
So here we are 7 months post-wedding, and I couldn't be more thankful for what God has done in our lives. It's been a full seven years, yet I know that many more great things lie ahead. I can't help but wonder what another recap with look like seven years down the road. I am so thankful that I said "I Do" to Jeremy 7 years ago. He is my perfect match and everything I could ask for in a husband! I'm glad I'm on this ride with him and look forward to seeing what's around the bend!